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Flowers, better in a bed then in a bouquet.

Posted on Wed Nov 12 2008
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I’m a woman so naturally, I love my flowers. I love receiving them, I love being around them. Everything from the way they smell to the way they look entice me, but it depresses me when they wither away and die- especially if they came in a basket or in a bouquet.

I’ve tried making dried flowers out of them- potpourri, just to keep them around for a little longer, but somehow it isn’t quite the same. They bring lovely nostalgia but not quite that cheerful perk as they did when they were once all brightly coloured and alive. And that’s exactly when I decided flowers look better in a bed then in a bouquet.

I am well aware that it is the circle of life for everything that lives to must one day die, but a complete circle means there is the birth of new life after. And that last part just doesn’t happen with flowers that come neatly arranged in a bouquet. They live then die but there are no new ones to blossom up after them.

But if they were planted in a bed, in a pot or just anywhere on the ground, it would be a whole different story because then that circle could actually go its full round! Basically it’s an ideal situation; you would be in the company of flowers all year round and you would also be indirectly giving Mother Nature and her little pollinators a boost in their efforts to keep the earth thriving and green!

Furthermore, planting flowers are going to cost you much less than buying them from the florist! How much would a packet of seeds set you back as opposed to purchasing a bouquet of roses? And if you know here to look (like your friends’ garden), it might not even cost you anything (caring is all about sharing)! 

When I receive a present; I want it to be something special and memorable, something that I can have around for a while, so receiving a tastefully decorated pot of flowers or a surprise in the form of my garden’s bed planted with a rainbow of blossoming petals for my birthday and valentines is certainly much more romantic then that cliché of a teddy bear with a bouquet of red roses!

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I rarely give cut flowers as gifts. There is always a large selection now of plants, even in supermarkets, in all sorts of pretty, unusual stylish containers. Just recently for a birthday gift, I brought a neighbour a mini herb garden, with 6 different commonly used herbs growing in a lovely terracotta pot which i decorated with a huge yellow satin bow... She loved it, and its lasted months as opposed to a few days..
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Tell that to all the girls that I knew before and I believe they will called be a cheap skate of not wanting to buy them flowers. Do you think they will feel the same if I bring them to a garden full of flowers in lieu of a bouquet of flowers? Well, if you do, I would like to date you!
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Well to me, it is the effort put into the thought that makes the gift priceless. Anyone can just forget your birthday then at the 11th hour drop by the shop to pick something up, but you can't exactly make a garden grow overnight (well maybe with enough money you can but that's not the point). I think a garden full of flowers would be more mesmerizing than a bouquet! It's unique and shows dedication.
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I agree. Cut flowers are expensive and they die. Why spend all of that money on something that will be dead in a week? When I was in the hospital after the birth of my daughter, my MIL brought me cut flowers (I don't remember what) and a big Mylar baloon that played a song every time it was hit. I thought it was tacky and annoying, but I graciously said thank you. (My husband liked the baloon.) My mother bought me a potted green leafy plant which she is now plant sitting. (My husband and I and our 14 month old daughter moved in with his parents until my husband got a church.) Because of my mother's and my care (my mom has more experience and is more talented with plants) her gift is now thriving. My MIL's dead flower might have been saved when we moved, but I don't remember. Last week, while at my grandmother's visitation, my husband and I were looking at some of the flowers. (I have always wondered why people send flowers when somebody dies.) I don't recall what comments we made, but it ended with me saying that they were going to be dead in a week too. (When I die, I'm going to request no flowers and that the money can go to a charity.) One of my dad's cousins sent a ceramic pot with fake flowers in it. I liked the pot and was going to ask about it when the flowers died, but I noticed the flowers were fake. Much nicer. (I do have dried flowers from my mother's father's funeral and my mother's step-mother's funeral, but they are crumbling.)
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I am one of those girls that doesn't see the appeal of roses or cut flowers as a gift. I think that they are pretty and the thought is nice but they don't last long.
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I have to say though Vegan Mom, I really hate fake flowers too... Probably my mum's fault as she won't have them in the house either.. says they are bad luck...
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